Here's the thing, people die. They die everyday. And everyday a family or person somewhere is torn apart by their loss. No matter your beliefs regarding what happens after death, whether you believe in God or not, it still hurts, it REALLY hurts. An unimaginable pain creating an emptiness and a void that's near on impossible to think will ever go away...and it doesn't, it never goes away completely. That void will always be there in some form. How can it not when something or someone that poured so much into your life is no longer there?!
But over time, what seemed like the biggest blackest hole, deep within, intent on sucking you into the eternal imprisonment of darkness, slowly shrinks and the pain starts to fade to form a special place you hold in your heart dedicated to them and them alone. Grief is just love with no place to go and the beauty of this life is that somehow things come your way to allow you to channel that love to a new home. Humans want to love, they want to FEEL love, and as long as we don't close ourselves off, that energy of love with continue to flow. If someone that filled you up with their love is no longer here, when the time is right, pay it forward. Turn pain & despair into love & hope for someone to do the same, keeping the love of the lost alive forever.
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